More good photos of 2006

Mom, out of hospital, out of rehab

I could go on, but I'll stop here. What I could use are more photos! If you have 'em, I want them, please.

Little Guitarista

[photo courtesty of J F on her flickr account, which she may or may not disclose.]

I'll just tune this guitar ... plink! Sproing!

Jennifer broke the guitar? No. The strings snapped. She got a different guitar.

"Do, a deer. A female deer. Re, a drop of golden sun ... said the joker to the theif."

Hey, she caught on quickly!

Medicine

More medical news, but not about Lois or Thomas. Debbie, this time takes the spotlight. Apparently Debbie's pain quickly worsened over a short period so she will have to have surgery again. Her adhesions are a problem and the same doctor will likely fix them.

With scanning, the medical staff found her cecum to be slightly malformed. That seems to be minor, but it is interesting, nonetheless.

Debbie said that she would likely have surgery in the spring, but she made no commitment to any time.

From Marcus' blog

photo collections for 2006; most of them taken by Marcus
collection 1
collection 2

* girl squatting by S. Cramer
* photo of me by Megan O.

Phone Poker?

Thomas got a call from Jessica. She was at a friend's house. They were playing poker and needed to know the hand values. Who better to call, then Grandpa? He helped them!

Missing and good news

Lois started the day frantic that she couldn't find her pocket calendar. She looked everywhere. Finally, Thomas looked and found it in the car. Whew! Lois had two appointments today. She had one with the orthopedic who said, "I don't want to see you for a year." That sounds bad, but it's good!

Lois went to the Coumadin clinic for weekly blood draw and viola ... it's better, but they are looking for a specific number, so they'll never be satisfied. They will, however be happy with her improved number.

Lois get frustrated with the local market in that she can't always find things, like good quality fish. She found very large scallops, but they were pricey! After a day of driving and doctors, both Thomas and Lois were tired. They watched an episode of Ballykissangel before the Prez spoke at 9. They seem to like the show quite a bit. Netflix has been a saving grace in opposition to typical cable. Blecht!

Puke then no puke and wonderful sights

Lois shows a nice blastoma, courtesy of her diabetes. This one she didn't feel so much and was far less serious than other ones she's had. She didn't lose vision and the doctors tend to let these heal themselves, as long as it is not a symptom of a different disease. [photo is of the same eye]

It is 2007 and you know it because of billing from places. Say, like an April medical bill sent, noting that Medicare paid some, which means the bill is done. The weather has been cold and when not cold, often gloomy. The nice news is that there are snowdrifts to your chin and there arent' ice storms wrecking havoc and destruction.

Thomas is continuing with his home PT, but is starting to forget it. Tsk, tsk, tsk. He remembers at night, "Oops! I didn't finish my exercises." Lois has been between pukey, sleeping hours upon hours, and not restful at night. Apparently, 2007 is a good facsimile of 2006.

The Christmas tree is still up and the spirit of Christmas is still here, though the reality of another year is here, overshadowing the spirit of Christmas. The start of the year is slow, but welcome.

The extended family is starting their school year and with downturned faces. The Orozcos got their computers back running and the Loves are doing okay. The Freygang family ... now in three different locations are alright, but they don't write much -- so, I'll write and assume they are okay.

Thomas called friends about the bi-weekly poker. Nuts! There aren't enough people here in FW to keep the poker going in January and February, so it might be cancalled for those months. The "snow birds" don't come back 'til March/May. Kris, the most poker-avid player is most hurt by this news.

Lois will begin bible study with Betty, Gloria, and Donnasue this week. It will be great for them to make it a habit and setting goals. Now, if everyone can stay healthy, Thomas and Lois can go to the YMCA also.

Post holidays

Rain or shine, Dave plays

Rather than grab a spoon, the one who gets four of a kind puts his/her finger on his/her nose and pushes up like a pig snout.

New Year here and the family was too.

Here we see the kids playing basketball (Dave) and the others playing pig (spoons game without the spoons). We seemed to all have a good time. Johnny got new orthodics courtesy of Grandpa, for his flat feet. When about to leave, Johnny got hit on the head by the van door. It was unclear how badly hurt he was, but after the trip home, he was playing basketball. He, therefore, was okay.

The Orozcos start their school Wednesday and Ana returns to Indiana University also -- she's rushing for Sororities. They are darned particular about dresses. She and Debbie hunted for a couple of weeks -- nothing! Jennifer does not yet seem interested in rushing, but that really hasn't been discussed.

Lois was tired last night and Thomas went to bed around 8:30, before anyone. Thomas was still tired today.

Beth and Tom went back on Monday and got home safely. One of their dogs, Samson, pouted and showed his displeasure with being treated like a dog. He stopped being a dog a few years ago, so he didn't want to go back to being one.

Happy New Year!

The family gathered together for the New Year and grudgingly the group photo

We quickly put together a group shot ...

Then things got a little crazy

Rumbly in the Tumbly

Lois will later seek medical advice about her pukiness and general GI discomfort. She claims that she wants to address it after New Year, after the family leaves. Yeah, I'm sure that hospital forgot her appearance and desperately needs more medicare money, at the start of the year. Ho Ho Ho ... Merry Taxmas!

The good news is that other family is coming up from Indy area today and tomorrow. It will wham-bam Happy New Year Ma'am and then they stay or go ... I don't know. It will be nice however to just be with family.

Thinner & meaner

Lois' blood is thinner ... so much so that they doctor's are having her take less medicine -- Coumadin. We'll have to find out what, if anything all of that means. On the lighter side ... she's up longer and later.

Lois also has thunder gut. Her intestines sound like a bear or other wild beast. She has been uncomfortable and in some discomfort. She also been "urpy" and nausiated and pukey at times.

Thomas finished his at-office, PT today. He also visited a friend who is in a nursing facility after his hip injury.

Thomas and Lois are waiting for family from the Indy area, but their date of arrival is yet a mystery.

Christmas 2006

What a feast for the eyes -- Christmas in all of it's magic and wonder!

The day started like any other -- messy. Joe wanted to come over, but didn't have his car (long story that won't be covered here). He therefore wanted a ride, but wanted to stay only 30 minutes then leave. Well -- that wasn't going to happen. So, we were all off the hook for that responsibility. A family friend, Betty, joined us again and she had a wheeled walker with seat.

When we got her situated in the car, we weren't. We had packed a chair in the car, for the Freygangs (who hosted Christmas) have no really comfortable furniture for Lois. After several minutes of playing Tetris with bags, stuff, chair, and walker -- surrender! We put the wheeled walker in front with other stuff and Thomas, Lois, and Betty were in back. Marcus had the most comfortable seat -- driving.

Since the kids have been young, they have waited for "Grandma and Grandpa" to arrive before opening their gifts -- this year was no exception. We ate a lot, burst our guts, chatted and slowly rolled into the other room to open gifts. Diane and Father filmed the event -- as it was, and the unwrapping unfolded in shifts.

Angel was first, sniffing out her gift in seconds and chewing open her gift. She was cut off after a while, for fear of her getting sick from overindulgence, like the humans would know. The girls opened their many gifts and were happy, but he "big items" were the most dramatic. Jennifer got a guitar and Jessica got a store-bought computer, HP. Considering all the gifts, everyone did very well.

The bags of wrapping paper removed, the room was still full. We went into another room and played some games, taking a break with more eating -- sweets, pie, ice cream, cookies and more. Boy, oh boy ... stomache's delight and misery. Betty grew tired and we withdrew around seven. Thomas, Lois, and Marcus got back around eight and time slowed and we were weary. Thomas and Lois packed it in early and Marcus could not.

God willing, we will have our other 2nd and 3rd Christmas this year, just as nice as this one. The Orozco family and Loves are coming this weekend for Christmas / New Year.

Footsmarts

Lois has had some difficulty with her feet. Boy! This year isn't a happy story for some health! She complains of pain. Thankfully, it isn't too bad. It is, just one more thing. Lois' coumadin levels are getting low, so her dosages are changing. Isn't that just super fun?! [unhappy feet]

Thomas is still growing stronger with home PT and office Physical Therapy. His tests recently came back okay ... in normal range.

Thomas and Lois went to Indy area to see family and had a good time there, I understand. They spent part of a day with Beth and Tom. Beth and Tom have two dogs who love to play and tease each other. According to Lois, they teased each other with a log two feet or longer. One would have it, then it would be "stolen" from him by the other.
Supposedly, Samson grew tired and took the log to the porch, lying in front of Lois and Beth. Argos passed by several times, trying to continue the game, but no dice. He resigned with style by sitting on the porch, placing a paw comically on Samson's head, "please, let me have the toy!" [useful feet]

The next Thomas took Tony, Jon, Michael, Dave, and Megan around a couple of places. They wound up seeing, Happy Feet. They also saw Tony's folks' new house, nearly complete, which is in the area of Debbie and Tony's house. I understand that it quite nice.

Lois went with the girls, Debbie, Beth, Ana to see a quilt show in Indy. They had artisans who crafted quilts with environmental material -- canvas bags, scrap denim, etc. While lacking batting and other more typical quilt facets, they excelled in dynamic uniqueness. After hours of walking, Lois had some tired feet.

What Lois got to see was Secret (Orozco cat) crawl through the Christmas tree to bat off ornaments. After that, she'd bite and scratch at them like prey. [scratchy feet] Toby, disappointingly, barked to be included -- asking, "where's mine?" Lois laughed quite a bit about the silly animals on this trip.

Marcus missed that, in favor of seeing a birthday party on Saturday. After months of turning in resume' s, he has received now more responses that the companies got them, but declined to hire him. [defeat]

He turned in a 20 page application for a job -- he'll find out sometime next week what, if anything results from that.

Health horizons

Thomas had a carotid artery test a bit ago. The office had not called, or so he thought. After checking the phone service, he found that the test came out clear -- no mess, no surgery. Lois isn't going to need eye surgery and Thomas is getting stronger with his exercises.

Eerie sight on the wall -- what Lois called Angel, was a shadow of bells.

This is a superimposed picture of the tree lit and the tree with a flash. It has a ghostly appearance. I will have to re-shoot the picture.

Christmas in stages

Lois and Thomas put together a few of their holiday decorations in celebration of Christmas. There are window lights, a tree with decades of ornaments -- memories with each of them. There were carols on the stereo ... dust on the lawn of a snow two days ago. The sun melted some, leaving typical Decemeber white grass.

The feeling of love and of Christmas is waming the house. Thomas is starting to work on the hide-a-gift puzzles, which he has done for 30 some years. Yes, Christmas is here. I know that there isn't a picture here, but the next one will have pictures.

God bless you all -- thanks for Jesus!

Bliss?

Okay, while there weren't the sounds of elves hammering away or sewing machines feverishly working to make dolls, December is here and minds and hearts are on Christmas.

Lois is reading what she thought was a card, but alas ... it was not. Earlier she got ill then rested. It was a blissful day in one respect -- no doctor's appointment for Lois or Thomas.

Lois later was feeling a little better.



The question for this photo is: What do you think is happening? What a Santa's elf caught putting together a toy? Was this a naughty soldier?

No. Thomas is putting in weight (via marbles) in the soldier who stands sentry during the Christmas holiday. There are two holes in him, one at the feet and one at the neck (for the lightbulb).

Thomas and Marcus put up the tree today, but did not decorate it just yet. It is expected that Lois, Thomas, and Marcus will slowly piece together the tree on Saturday, perhaps.

Applied silence

Marcus had an interview these folks. It took around 6 hours start to finish, but still Marcus doesn't know if they want him.

As Marcus has had a "desk job" for such a long while, they seemed hesitant to hire anyone of the kind who wasn't a working man's man.

For the bulk of the time, Marcus spent waiting and waiting, talking a bit to the other applicants, but mostly just jotting down notes for his blog and reading an old, though roughly written book.

Marcus had never read Dracula by Bram Stoker and after a few chapters -- it was not for him. It was okay for an early 20th century novel, but has significant glitches in the 21st century.

After months of working to get a job it symbolizes the tracks of my tears.

Counted, recounted -- heck, just buy!

Thomas has a group with whom he meets montly, "KLUB". It's mostly comprised of engineers, Magnavox/Ratheon (other companies) who meet, eat, discuss. They also play poker, but Thomas bowed out of that a few years ago.
Thomas arranged a choral group to sing. As it is Christmas time, the tradition is to have poinsettias available -- one per table and they are given away or raffled away.

I advised Thomas to take a camera, but alas -- he did not. Lois went with him and hopefully enjoyed herself.

Yesterday, I know -- not chronological deal with it, Lois traveled with Diane and Jennifer to Purdue. When they got there, Jennifer's roomate was there and the four of them ate at Subway, West Lafayette. Her roommate has a car, however odd for a freshman, but is relegated to park it in Timbuk III (one and a half times as far as Timbuk Tu). I think the girls were happy to be out of the cold. Lois remarked how small the room was, but it is, after all a dorm.

So far as I can tell, Purdue is colder than here, but some degrees. Since freshmen don't have cars, I guess that they likely have the strongest legs. Jenny herself said that the first week in school, the elevators didn't work, so 8 flights up and down she made her first grueling week.

She doesn't seem to like a few of her teachers, but that's kind of like school. Anyway, Jenny lucked out and has a suitable roommate and she is excited about getting the blank out of there for Christmas and Winter break.

Thomas is due to have another scan of his back sometime soon. Lois' eye is weaker, but there's no emergency on it. Thankfully, despite the dark of winter, she and Diane made it home safely.

Happy 19th, Jennifer

Jenny celebrated her 19th birthday a day early on Saturday. Lacking a "9", she put together nine candles with a large "1".

She squealed with delight with her sister's generous gift, the gift from Grandma & Grandpa, and Diane's media gifts.

"Wicked" soundtrack and The Sound of Music on DVD. Jenny agreed that she had it memorized but loved the DVD. She couldn't help but pop in "Wicked" for her and Grandma's enjoyment.

She also got a Dave Matthews' CD, which is a band she grew to like by someone.

Despite the joy and love, there were and are challenges. One: the house, while warmer, might have been warmer with a fire. Jim and Marcus' attempt to make a fire sent smoke into the house. The damper (trap) did not fully open, sending smoke throughout the nearest three rooms. In cold, bitter winter, the windows and doors were opened. Thankfully for them, batteries were absent from their smoke alarm. I also glad that it wasn't a real fire.

Warm feelings, cold weather -- happy nineteenth, Jenny!

eye and strain

One of many exercises, Thomas works on his shoulder. Although Thomas originally led me to believe that he had only a few, perhaps three therapy sessions. The doctors and therapits suggested that he might need more. That isn't bad, just not as predicted. He seems to be doing okay with them. He has also developed knee pain. When it rains, it pours.

Lois had an appointment on Friday with the optomatrist who wanted to see her after taken photos of her eye. According to the doctor, she has problems, but he didn't feel that surgery was the right course of action right now. That was a relief. Thomas and Lois got there and had the "joy" of waiting around 90 mintues to see the doctor.

With the statements given, I thought -- why did they have to see him, especially if they had to wait, but ... I guess a phone call would have raised too many questions. So, while Lois' eye is not a surgical need, nor is Thomas' knee and shoulder.

All the while, Diane had some work to complete and Jennifer wanted to come home from Purdue. Marcus lent a hand or wheel and drove to pick up Jennifer. The trip there was fine, but getting out was less clear and they lost 30 minutes getting out.

Blessed they are in spirit

Thomas and Lois are adatpting to yet new challenges. Thomas has started physical therapy for his shoulder. According to the docotors and therapists, he had really let his arm become weak. His right shoulder was the point of injury and that is he favored arm (right-handed). In the months -- nearly a year, he has avoided using his should when he could. This was somewhat helpful to limiting pain, but the reprocussion was a great strength loss. Instead of being 10 percent stronger on his favored arm, he has 50 percent of the strength of his left arm. That's bad.

They remarked that it seems likely that he would never regain a balance of strength between the arms and shoulders, but Thomas might get 80 percent of his strength. He was only minorly disappointed. I would have been more peeved. Anyway, after a few more sessions, they will have taught him all they can for his home-therapy. He is tenatively content with what has been stated.

Continuing with his role in the Engineers Club (KLUB), he has found speakers and entertainers for them. This year, he got a school group to sing. Some year previous he got a group in to perform, which was quite enjoyed by the engineers.

Lois has, interestingly had days absent of doctors' appointments. On other days, she's done marathon appointments. By the end of the day, Thomas and Lois return, wiped out completely ... drive, wait, prod, poke, blood draw, then repeat. The continual observation of Lois' coumadin levels reveals that she's doing okay with that. Her injection pens are her sour point. One pen is glitchy and the other is maybe okay. The "dial a level" insulin pen is quite a novel idea. She has two different insulins, each used at different times. After some experience with them as they were new, she cleverly opted to use the nighttime insulin earlier, as it sometimes keeps her awake.

Yesterday marked a great day, in that Thomas and Lois returned to the YMCA after a near 12 month absence. Thomas worked on his shoulder and Lois worked on walking machines. Her knees were aching and criping, but she is better today. I hope, by February, that they return to normal life sans hospital. They cannot escape checks, therapies and appointments, but skipping out on hospital is better.

Thomas golfed this morning, then ate with friends. He was happy to leave and swing. "Hit away father, hit away."

amendment to Thanksgiving

Thomas and Lois took Angel out for a walk. The three liked it. When they got back, I saw a neat, "nifty" sight ... Angel wandering around and Thomas and Lois sitting in the sun, basking ... enjoying being out, in the sun, together.+ Though there were plenty of desserts, I doubt that much will be left on Monday, since Jenny goes back on Sunday as does Jim. Each, I think, having three more weeks of school. Jim loves snacking on desserts and generally makes meals of them. According to Diane -- he's a grazer, eating all day on little here and there.

The folks had a great deal of food and Diane sent home pounds of food. After two days of cold turkey sandwiches, there isn't a dent in the bag sent home with the folks.

I am thankful for these two other, unmentioned things: though the year is waning, the folks' love is not. I am thankful that I still have more time ... not quite sunset, not quite twilight, not the night yet. Miles and years separate family and people, but love -- love binds us.

God, thanks for us; Jesus, thanks for the after.

+ literally separated by commas

Festival

There were rows and rows and rows of trees. It's an anuual event in Fort Wayne and this year, there were fewer entries. Last year we missed this festival of trees. There were many contendors, but I voted for not a single one. Had I voted, the "Peace" tree would have been my favorite.

Thomas, Lois, Diane, Jennifer, and Jessica went downtown on a glorious and warm day. Marcus, photographer, was with them. They viewed the 40 some trees in the historic Embassy Theater with wonderful architecture. After the long walk -- good for Lois, we visited a coffee shop. Aspen Coffee is slightly cheaper than Starbucks. Lois had a difficult time of it as the machines were very loud making drinks. There was a group of eight after us, we lucked out with timing.

Our next adventure -- downtown Santa on sleigh light display. Also, there is a man who has the largest display in the county. It is a wonder to see. Snow adds to the magic of the display, so, we should wait.

Lois and Thomas are doing okay, tired and needing rest more than usual, but with the holiday coming, that is natural. To everyone -- Happy belated Thanksgiving and an early Merry Christmas!

Thanksgiving

So, here's the family about and around, after eating lots of food for Thanksgiving.

We played Imagine If... and later Tripoly. Since the folks had not seen Cars, they watched that. I had seen it and saw bits here and there.

I chatted a bit with Jim while he was drawing deer on his drawing pad. He had drawn a scene before, but was adapting this one to have the father watching the fawn.

In all, we had a good time, ate lots and the girls, Jessica & Jennifer loved that Lois brought over a gallon of homemade orange sauce -- consumed nearly like soup.

Lost in translation

Lois got a call from the nurse practitioner today about her potassium levels. The plan days ago was that she skip only one day, then resume half pill doses thereafter. Lois didn't quite do this and with the puking, keeping the potassium down would have been unlikely. They are doing another blood draw tomorrow. Thomas is creeping up on better health and got word that his shoulder would probably heal up with physical therapy.

For Thomas, there was good news. Now, if we could get Lois healthy, that would be something!

parental health teeter-totter

When one is healthy, the other is not. The health fairy gets a lump of coal this year, for sure!

Thomas had an appointment today and found that his glucose was on average in a three-month study, so that's good. He was low on sodium because of a medication increase, so the doc put him on non-diuretic diovan to hopefully address this issue.

Lois spent 16 hours in bed -- ill, pukey, nausiated, groggy -- all around yucky. She perked up a bit in the evening, but not wholly. Thanksgiving next week might be interesting or disappointing. We are to pick up Betty who has spent Thanksgiving with the family for a few years now. She's an older woman -- friend of family, who has done bible study with Lois. The more I know of her -- the more she bugs me, so I try not to know too much.

Anyway, the family (Beth and family, Debbie and family, Diane and family) are plugging along with situations here and there and troubles not always of their making.

Sometime, Marcus will rampage the town out of frustration with job hunting. He has had two invites to spend money to get jobs. He hasn't comitted to anything.

phone found

I was starting up the vehicle to get it warm, looking also for a belt extender. I found, to my surprise, a cell phone. My niece has lost or misplaced her repeatedly, so I guessed it was hers. I then thought, that it might have been one of her friend's. I called -- busy, called again, busy. I got the house finally and she warmly greeted me, almost tearing because the phone wasn't stolen, as she thought might have happened.

After dinner, I drove over to drop off the phone and she hugged me several times to thank me. She was reuinted with her phone. She was then again directed to continue with her chores. Cinderella went back to chores, but was happy to have the phone.

brief stop

This falcon stopped by here looking for birds to eat. Strangely, they all left.

second sight

Lois went to the eye doctor and after much deliberation, he has scheduled a December appointment. Since it was so late, it is very likely that the situation isn't that disastrous. Let us hope that's so.

Since Thomas and Lois are still quite ill, they have missed any and all appointments of a personal nature. They did get to say farewell to a good neighbor and family who have moved to an adjacent town, New Haven. It is not to be confused with New York.

So, end of the week, sickness and tiredness prevails, but health might be on the horizon.

Medical histories

Thomas went to his oncologist today after having had tests and scans. According to the findings, he has no changed in PSA levels. So, it appears his cancer is in remission. He was not without some downer news. According to tests, he had a higher than average glucaose level and his sodium was too low. A light thoractic scan revealed, a likely old, bone curvature and mild degeneration.

As he has had sinus issues and sickness symptoms. The doctors reported these but made no suggestions regarding them. So, coughing, hacking, but feeling better, Thomas got great news.

Lois is still overly sleepy but recently found a minor problem.

She went in on Tuesday to get blood drawn. Later, the office called requesting another test. They "didn't like" her first one. She has been taking a schload of pills and supplements. Potassium was one of these and supposedly, she has too much now. That is a good thing. Her glucose is improving, her knees are growing stronger, and now her potassium is better.

Truly, this week has been a reversal of fortunes, for the better.

Going "Blech, cough ... hack, blech" in the night!

Thomas and Lois are still battling colds, though different ones. Thomas refuses to go to doctor -- God forbid they find the sinus infection and give him medicine for it ... that would be terrible. I don't know why.

Lois had a good deal of walking today, to Coumadin clinic, now at 2.0, which is about where they want it, Walgreens, Scotts Grocery (lots of walking), then later in the afternoon -- Freygang's to let out their dog, Angel. Angel was very happy to have compnay.

At one point in time, Lois and Angel were sitting on the playground equipment, shoulder to shoulder like two school buddies.

Lois is still potentially pukey and Thomas is still fighting both the cold and doing anything about it. He has taken 90 some pills for almost naught. This includes OTR cold medicines. To calculate cough drops I would need my computer. In all, he sounds worse.

Lois is in better spirits, but I think she felt good for the first time in such a long while, she might have overdone it.

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In a somewhat related story, a restaurant had about 50 patrons complain of stomach issues. The Health Department is investigating now. It is notable because a restaurant in the same plaza this summer had a hepatitis A scare from an employee who handled food, who had Hep A. For those not in the know, Hep A isn't nearly as serious as Hep B or C. Hep C, of course, generally is found in those with AIDS.

None of us have eaten there in a while, so no worries.

Sickness

Lois, while faring better than Thomas ended her bout of wellness with getting sick again this evening. Thomas has continued to look, sound and feel rotten. Despite Marcus' calls to reconsider, they each have vowed to do the shot next time around, though their illnesses are directly attributable to the shot.

Father, has slipped into a second illness due to his weakness from the shot and several-day illness.

E E E

So the screen showed on her glucose meter. She called the company. They were happy to ship her a new one via mail, but that would leave her without a meter for readings, which determine how much insulin you get. They thought, then cut all the wasted time, stating that they would have one at Walgreens within minutes for her ... free of charge. She didn't have any paperwork to do, just show up and say her name.

That is a good company policy.

She felt well enough that she drove herself.

Wait and See

Lois had an early eye appointment. Since Thomas was ill, Marcus drove Lois to, yep, you guessed it ... hospital.

The wait was very long between sessions. On the lighter side, all the personnel there were extremely friendly, courteous and kind. After the 3 some hour session with tests to determine degree and accuracy of diagnosis:
macular degeneration, background diabetic retinopathy, macular pucker (verified by two separate doctors in different buildings). The tests were fairly quick and simple. The Opthomologist's office is to call a week from now with results.

Since I was with Lois, I was allowed to sit with her. We got to see "required" info-videos on the procedures for the situation including one test they used today, fluorescein angiography, which involved injecting redish dye. Thankfully they found a vein in Lois' arm that was fairly easy, they shot the dye and they took pictures.

The office used 35 mm cameras on the end of a huge-scope machine. According to the nurse, the dgital cameras presently don't have the resolution that the doctors want and the digital unit that could be bought costs $20,000. This then leaves the staff there to develop the film on site, what a drag -- in a dark room in the office.

Anyway, the results will be in around a week and Lois will know then.

Today began with another trip to hospital

Thankfully, it was only to see an optomotrist (or similar) as Lois had an appointment with him for a retinal situation.  She was nervouc, but I thought it was unwarranted.  The office was at a wing of hospital, which is why we where at hospital.  The morning, cool -- not quite cold, with beautiful sun.  Let us hope that it is like the news that she will get; cool, bright, beautiful.

Ill

Capital One commercials have a phrase, "What's in your wallet?" Thomas and Lois have the great experience of, "What's in your stomach?"

Lois finally puked after 30 hours of dry heaves. Thomas had a fit of feeling better followed by conplete energy drain. Needless to say, illness has a profound hold on the folks and isn't letting go anytime soon.

BLAH!

Marcus is still reading job postings and finding other jobsearch engines and posting and applying (repeat).

Weekend review

Rampant injuries:

Tom Love, broken hand after falling during morning run (jogging);
Joe, twisted ankle from basketball;
Thomas, sickly after flu shot, with lethargy and flu-like symptoms;
Lois, flu-like symptoms after flu shot, also sore back for two or so days.

Well, here's the windup and the pitch -- Halloween. It seems that Marcus will be door watcher this year as the folks are out sick. The weather is supposed to be good during trick-or-treat times, let's hope they're right.

P T

She had eleven sessions of P.T. and all she got was this cruddy t-shirt.

No more teachers, no more books, no more angonizing looks. Lois finished physical therapy. She is much stronger for it all. Congratulations!

Mom's minty fresh legs

Lois has been using oitnment for an infection. Well, last night she saw two little tubes lying out and thought that she might add just a bit more to her legs, when she discovered that they were itty bitty toothpaste tubes. Well, wouldn't that have been neat! She could have had plaque-free legs!

Autumn

This afternoon, the folks and I went to a local park. The roses have all but expired, especially after the mild frost we experienced this morning. The cool was beaten back by the glorious sun. We had a quick stroll, but a nice walk.

Thomas was surprised at the level of work that the parks department did on the park. They didn't patch it up, like he thought they would, but rather re-did the park. Thomas and Lois here are looking out around.
They found a bench where they could sit. If you'll notice, neither one of them could rest their feet on the ground. It's a great bench for tall people, but terrible for short people. Lois got some more physical therapy exercises while she sat.

We could see many neat colors in the small park, but were slightly entertained by the dog pair who were eager and boisterous about swimming after the continually tossed stick by their human. After many short throws, the ducks didn't stray that far from the bank or the dogs. They didnt' feel threatened.

disappear

Lois has had a rash on her arms and legs due to an infection. With the help of overpriced medicine, it has been conquered. Lois is still doing physical therapy and hopes for a few more sessions, though honestly she came home yesterday bemoaning the work she had done. She recovered.

I mentioned to her that she and Thomas could again go to the YMCA for excercise, as they used to do, twice or thrice weekly. They could go as often as they liked, it just seemed to work out better on the 2-3 times per week. There is only a question of if Lois can go into the water and what other limitations she might be given. Thomas wants to go back to the YMCA. I think it would give both of them a time out, and eventually more energy.

Father has been without golf most of the year. Today, he woke with the plan to play, but ... frost everywhere prevented this. What souring and sobering news for the golfer! Last night he played poker, though he didn't win, he had fun. His shoulder is still a bit of a mess and he has agreed to see a doctor sometime this month about it, as it has been months not getting much better (February is when he first spoke of it).

Standing on her own

right arm

left arm

Lois is now doing much, much better! She had been using a transfer bench to enter and exit the shower. This allows the user to sit while showering. Today, Lois informed everyone Thomas that she didn't use the bench. She stood the entire time. Without a doubt this marks a huge leap forward. She was never able to stand like that in the shower without crying or some other situation. That is simply great news!

Around ten days ago, Lois noticed growing spots on her arms (reverse side of elbows; humorus-tibia fibia joint). The spots grew and were "hot". After a reluctant doctor's visit, the GP gave her some ointment, topical antibiotic. This really seems to have helped. Over two days her skin is now peeling, each layer underneath being healthier. The doctor theorized it was a particular type of infection and apparently the medicine chosen was right. At $30 per half ounce, it better be great!

night dig

I found this wreck on the ground one morning. Something was digging, but for what? I found out later, a couple of nights ago, a local raccoon was digging. I wasn't sure for what, until I saw it chasing something. The tell-tale paths mark the trails of moles. Wicked things, but they do eat grubs. Anyway, the raccoon is the digger and mole eater. Since the ground is cold, but not yet frozen and there is a prediction for a mild winter, I believe the lawn might need more work than usual in the spring.

Driven to win

Lois, after so many weeks of not driving, re-mastered driving within minutes. Thomas and Lois practiced at a school parking lot -- since it was Sunday, no one was there. Go figure! Anyway, both reported to me that she did very well and that she then drove to the grocery store. They were fairly fast until ... dun, dun DUN! A talkative neighbor intercepted them and the talking started.

Thomas later had to come rescue her from the talking, as they were standing and that really hurts Lois' knees. Walking is less painful, since you shift your weight. Lois is walking mostly without her walker and sometime uses a cane -- she's moving right on up. Lois has more appointments this week, for long-since seen doctors for different appointments. Still, she should have 6 some sessions (3 weeks) of physical therapy remaining. They are forever giving her more challenges. She seems willing to do them all.

Happier but colder

The folks and I went to Bob Evans for lunch. Originally planned was shopping afterwards, but for circumstances not under everyone's control, that didn't happen. It was, however, a nice, bright day with lots of high wind.

Thomas got the unimpressive breakfast burrito and Lois got the roast beef breakfast, though she though in her head of ordering the beef hash.

wishy washy

Yesterday, it was warm, the sun and light clouds were soothing. The autumn colors were beautiful. Thomas and Marcus put on yet ANOTHER rod. Thomas was clever enough to yank the last one out of the wall. In his defense, the metal sheered in half, not really pulled out of the wall. The bar, like the others was a nusance to put into the wall. It took parts, tools time, and a drill bit was broken in half.

Later, the folks went out for a walk in the nice autumn weather. It isn't supposed to stay nice for all that long, so today was the day. We three ate orange roughee for dinner and then the folks watched the Ugly Dachshund, an old Disney movie.

In the evening, for no particular reason, Thomas took out the blood pressure monitor and took his reading, then Lois' and found that Lois had a heart rate in the 40s. Despite taking it several times, it was always low (a few times in the 30s). Since she's had heart problems, heart attack history, we got to see the emergency room last night. We were there for two hours, then Lois was discharged with a 24-hour heart monitor.

It was determined that she had non-symptomatic bradycardia (slow heart rate without any symptoms). It is likely that some of the medicines that she's taking are now at too high of levels and are pushing her heart rate down too low. Well, they'll determine what they will do later.

Zoo

Tom and Lois went to the zoo ... Marcus joined them. Here we see Tom and Lois examining the Fall and Halloween decor, namely pumpkins. Mom, as strong as she isn't wasn't going to be able to walk with the walker for the 2 miles that we went. We therefore got a wheelchair for her, older, but the attendant cleaned it before Lois sat down in it.

Thomas and Lois have had a zoo menbership for decades, but this year this was the first time they went. They paid over sixty dolalrs for the memebership, but health destroyed opportunities to visit the zoo before. Little did anyone think about the wheelchair, but frankly, even sitting was painful for Lois before the surgery.


Here we see Lois and Thomas viewing wallaby's, not liking the cool weather. Lois was standing, using the railing as a guide for her. We found that the wheelchair didn't fit well in all places. Lois, generally home-bound, was delighted to go out and wander around. It's tough to find neat, scenic areas with paved paths. It's a good thing she wasn't stuck inside all winter long with little/no mobility. That would bring serious "blahs".

Well, it wasn't much, but Lois really enjoyed getting out -- Thomas perhaps more so, in that he also doesn't want to leave Lois alone all the time, but can't stand to be trapped inside (Winter is certainly tough on him). Marcus enjoyed the trip, having a grand time photographing and was pleased that a person, teen girl, was kind enough to open doors on several occasions, as the folks and she were traveling about the same speed.

Choices

On Thursday, Lois got a chance to ride the lifecycle (standing bicycle with fan instead of front wheel. She liked it substantially better than the other bike that required you to push up and down, not moving legs in cycles and circles like the lifecycle. All other cycles work like the latter. They are measuring her ability to bend her knees (in angles) and they were hoping that she would get to 120 degrees. As of Thursday, she had 124 on one leg and 123 on the other. Well, what do you know about that?!

She is often seen walking without her walker and is getting faster on the steps -- perhaps the most difficult thing to do after knee surgery, apart from jumping. Somehow, I don't think Lois will be doing jumprope anytime soon out of choice, rather than pain. Lois is in good spirits.

Thomas has missed a great deal of golf, poor him. I hope that he gets in a bit before the end of the seasons+. He is suffereing a bit from seasonal allergies, but is doing okay. He's still taken aback by Paul's unpredicted demise.

The TV failed in a peculiar way -- it wouldn't turn off when you pushed the power. One would naturally assume it was a remote control problem, but ... even the TV panel gave the same result. The only sure way to turn off the TV was to unplug it. The folks often just clicked off the powerstrip to which it was attached. Sometimes they would forget to click it back into place.

Anyway, the repairman came out and pull a resistor that burst a bit, like it exploded. After this part was replaced, it plays fine. Not too bad for an old, old set. The repairman lives in the neighborhood, so wasn't too far away. He chateed to me quite a bit on number theory and vector analysis regarding periodic cycles and reapeating numbers in the lottery games. He has yet to win, but sees patterns in the randomness. I am not convinced to play anymore, as I never got a big payout and I had a win-loss ratio of 36-64. I got to retain 36 cents out of every dollar, while the state got 64 cents. With that, I could never win. The repairman said that my ratio was actually high (better for me) than most persons.

Everyone here is okay, not dynamite or filled with superpowers and super abilities, but we're okay. I hope that we can enjoy the autumn colors soon and thankfully not from a hospital room. I was hoping that everyone would keep to the pact and stay well this year, but no one did.

+ different dates for different courses

Another wet day

Lois and Thomas went to appointments today, but there was a bit of confusion. They called me to find out where, if it was written, they were to go today. They had an understanding that they should be at one doctor's office, but perhaps another. I told them what was written. Still not convinced myself, I called the office listed at the time they were trying to meet and they had two office appointments running similtaneously. I thought, as did the scheduling nurse, that there should be a logic bit that prevents that from happening. What she and I didn't know is that the doctors did well intend to do that and Lois met with two doctors that hour -- saving much time and gas.

Thomas and Lois then went out to lunch and followed that with visiting the newly built Target here in town. It is the new SUPER Target, whatever that means. They seemed to like it and got gifts for kids, a basketball, and a new kettle. Now, one might suspect the use for the kettle -- that's right to make hot water for tea. The other kettle poured about as cleanly as an old spray can. The new one works great.

Lois was assigned a new home therapy using the basketball. I joked that it was layups, but it isn't that either. She uses it for flexing and movement; how very clever. I don't think she'll put Michael Jordan out of position anytime soon.

I picked up my neice, Jessica at the YMCA where she exercises after school. Thankfully it is within walking distance of the school. She had a doctor's appointment after that, so I drove her there (about 30 minutes away from the Y). I took her back to the folks house with the understanding that she would likely have to spend the night there for her mother was serving jury duty. Diane was under the impression that the case might last until Thursday evening, followed by a weekend deliberating sentencing. It was a civil trial and it finished sooner. The jury found the defense not guilty, so there wasn't a penalty phase.

Marcus spent some time looking for jobs (daily) and got a notice that one place actually responded -- "Thank you -- blah, blah, blah ... position has been filled." Drats! I'm still looking and applying.

Father is reading, "End of the Spear" about the missionaries who are slain by a tribe in Equador. Marcus is reading, "Dose of Sanity" about the poor state of psychiatry and the misdiagnosis and more for lack of medical approach to therapy. It's written by a practicing Neuropsychiatrist and exposes the many failings of cardboard psychiatry. I would highly recommend this short and simple book.

Lois is walking better each day, though feels the pain of rain-borne aches and joint pain. Her new knees are better than the old ones and she is walking better now than she had the previous six months and I believe in far less pain. Yes, yes ... double yes!

Freer

Although she's not completely unbound, she is freer to walk about. She's stronger than she has been. Thomas bought a cane for her at the last minute, for while visiting friends who don't have a raised toilet seat, she found it impossible to lift herself without a cane. The walker, however useful, wasn't enough. Lois is still working on at-home PT.

Thomas and Lois got a chance to play cards with friends this weekend. For another time (nth time in a row) the ladies beat, no dare I write, slaughtered the boys. The scores weren't divulged to me, but I'm sure the four-digit score was well earned or liked by the ladies.

From the previous post, readers should be aware that a friend died after surgery, after a farily rourtine operation. It is the same operation that Lois endured. She was under a river of blood thinners (due to heart problems) prior to the surgery and got back on them within hours of post-op. She was ver fortunate to have a caring and paitent staff surrounding her, helping her.

Thomas will spend hours today and tomorrow at services. I'm sure that his family knows that Paul will be missed.

He folded

This man played poker with Thomas, also golf.  Lois thought him to be a quiet, nice man.  He got a blood clot after knee surgery and died.  Thomas is to attend his services today.

 

PAUL G. OSTRANDER, 77, died Friday, Sept. 29, 2006, at Parkview Hospital, Fort Wayne. Born in Toledo, Ohio, he was an Electrical Engineer with Magnavox Corporation for 26 years, retiring in 1988. He was a U.S. Navy World War II veteran, a member of Suburban Bethlehem Lutheran Church, American Legion Post 296 and the Tri-State 2 Cylinder Club. Survivors include his wife, Marilyn of Columbia City; sons, Michael Ostrander of Columbia City and William (Brenda) Ostrander of San Luis Obispo, Calif.; daughter, Sue (William) Gooding of Winona Lake; and grandchildren, Mason and Jared Ostrander, Simon Timms, Bruno and Jack Ostrander, Gabriella and Alexis Gooding. He was preceded in death by a grandson, Maximillian Ostrander. Service is 11 a.m. Tuesday at Suburban Bethlehem Lutheran Church, 6318 W. California Road, with calling one hour prior at the church. The Rev. Richard Smith officiating. Calling also from 2 to 5 and 7 to 9 p.m. Monday at D.O. McComb & Sons Pine Valley Park Funeral Home, 1320 E. Dupont Road. Burial in Suburban Bethlehem Lutheran Cemetery. Military graveside honors by American Legion Post 296. Memorials to Suburban Bethlehem Lutheran School Endowment Fund or American Heart Association. Published in the Fort Wayne Newspapers from 9/30/2006 - 10/1/2006.